Success Story: Close To Giving Up

I'm 29, have been married for ten years and we have never used birth control. Just got the results of our second IUI--still not pregnant. My husband has a normal sperm count and my fertility specialist can not find a single reason why we're not pregnant. "unexplained infertility" is, for me, the worst kind. I'd rather know for a fact I can't conceive so I can just know, instead of continually getting my hopes up. Not sure if I'm up to trying ivf. Exhausted with the dashed hopes and not sure I can continue. I guess I'm wondering if it's time for me to mourn the fact that I'll never have a child of my own and move on.

Richelle, United States