Confused And Scarred

i am 41 and trying to get preg. my husband and i have been married 21 yrs. He had a vascotomy when he was 22 before he met me and now has antibodies attached to his sperm. he d id a reversal in 2000 but did not work. now the fertility doc. is saying do ivf with isci procedure, but its way too expensive for us and am having a moral issue with the freezing of embros. does anyone think IUI with donor sperm is a reasonable and more affordable procedure for our situation please let me know if i am truly alone on this decision or if anyone has been in this confusing boat with me.

sharon broyles