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Hi Fiso
Glad to hear of your BFP! I have taken a break from the site after my 1st failed IVF. It's been a tough road for me a dh. My story is similar to yours, 40 y/o, dh 38, failed IUis and 1 failed IVF. It gave me hope to see that your second IVF was a success. Can you elaborate on your protocal and exactly what your fertility challenge was. Was it unexplained? Thanks!

HI im new to this site but heres my story ! I am 33 and was in the middle of my first ivf cycle when my dr. pulled the plug and said my egg follicles were not growing to size and that my fsh numbers were way too high which indicated that i have premature ovarian failure &that by the age of 37 i will be done with menopause !my husband and i have always wanted kids and thankfully he does have a daughter from a previous marriage but for me this is the worst thing in the world for me to accept ive wanted kids ever since i was in my teenage yrs but wanted to wait for the right time and now i can't have them at all!adoption is out because it cost so much !i feel cheated and i feel really bad that i can't give my husband the baby we so badly want he's great though he keeps telling me he loves me and it ok and that its not my fault !i can't help but feel that it is my fault because he can still be with someone else and have that baby and if i was with someone else i still can't have that baby ! i keep telling my self that everything happens for a reason and something good is going to come of this ! i pray that going thru this that it doesn't hurt me so bad all the time !any comments are welcomed !