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[quote author=kathyadam link=board=17;threadid=5299;start=0#46179 date=1201021854]
Hi, I am so sorry to gear for your loss. I also had a miscarriage on the same day. I am still waiting for my period. I talked to my fertility Dr. and my OB, and they both said that it could take up to eight weeks for my period to come back. My husband and I had unprotected sex as well, 7 days after. I had not gotten my period so I took an hpt that came back negative. I would say, if you think you are pregnant, get a blood test. Good Luck!
[/quote]That you for getting back with me. I am also sorry for your loss. I never thought I would participate in this type of channeling. My heart goes out to every parent who has suffered a loss as this, or any kind. This is never easy for the parents or the families involved. My daughter was so devasted she told me I ruined her life and that she hated me. Thhose words tore into me. I had to get it together and explained that mummy had nothing to do with this. She had heard me over the years say I did not want anymore children. WORDS I regret now. My husband, her father also explained things to her. She is hurting so. I have to put my pain and anquish aside to comfort her, but in doing so healed me some. She wants us to try again so badly.
My Dr. also told me it could be anywhere from 3 to 8 weeks. I called the Dr. and he advised if I had not gotten my cycle by the end of next week to come in for a blood test. I don't reallt want to have to wait 2 months, but if I must nothing I can do about it. He said I am either having implantation or my cycle is trying to come on. I am 40 years old and so afraid, but I really would like a chance at having another baby before it is too late for me. I was going to have twins. When I actually think of them I cry... I am also a twin, so it meant so muh to me. I am healing and I understand everything happens in life for a reason. I don't want to accept this reasoning, and I just want my twins..But it is what is it. I am moving pass this. I think it bothers me more so because f my age and continually hearing about being 40 and the great risk and chromosomal issues, which is what my precious babies had. I was about 14 weeks along, but, my actual pregnancy stopped at one twin at 6 weeks and the other twin between 4 and 5 weeks. My solace in this is that my babies were together and still are in heaven. I will meet them when it's my turn. I have a 18yr old and a 10. I had not planned this pregnancy. It was actually a shock, but this miscarriage changed my marriage for the better. Now I have re-evaluated my priorities and want another one. I am so scared of miscarring again. I don't know how I would take it. I pray every night to my lord & savior and pray he implants me with and delivers me a beautiful healthy baby.
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