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Congratulations Popsy! (Hmmm - maybe I should change my log in name to something more positive - seems to get results! )
Mem, Regarding counts, our doctor told us 'normal' was as follows: Count - 20M Motility - 50% Morphology - 5% DFrag - 20
All are important in their own way, and it only takes one 'keener' to get the job done. However....
We've been trying for 1.5 years (actively - recreationally / alot longer), we have low counts, and we're 40. At 1yr we tried IUI / SW and are planning IVF next month (unless I get Popsy'd this month !!)
With the language barrier, I would probably search out a doctor in your hometown (via the internet) and see if you can get the results emailed and discuss options with an english speaking doctor. I'm sure the clinic there is very capable of offering the procedures, but I would be really worried about the language barrier to make decisions. I have a hard enough time understanding my doctor in english.
To address your questions RE: Counts and motility - my doctor was really straight forward and said it 'could' happen, but due to our age, we're moving to IVF. The journey for sperm it a treacherous one - get passed mucus, swim the distance to the tubes, make it up the tubes, find the egg, penetrate the egg, fertilize, back down the tube, and successfully implant and grow. When you think about it, it REALLY is a miracle.
You are still young (on my time scale) however, if I got your counts when I was your age, I think I would have moved to IVF straight away- if you can afford it ($ or insurance).
If you want a family - never give up. Keep your chin up, remember to grieve your losses (they are real!) After learning about our challenges, I read alot about greif / loss - I recommmend you do the same. You are starting to realize the potential lose of 'natural' conception for your family. Greif has stages - denial (not us), angry (why us) , depression (poor us) and acceptance (okay - now what....?). Let yourself feel these at each stage and set back, it's natural, then accept and move to 'now what' as soon as you possibly can handle it.
Good luck and stay strong!
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