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Hey! This is so cool...I feel like I've known many of you for a while, and now it seems the stories behind the women make perfect sense!! The picture is now complete!!

So, as for me, well, I'm 36 and DH is 35. We met through mutual friends...friends I've had since grade school. I was always friends with the guys because I rode motorcycles and would go off and have fun with them, and their girlfriends wouldn't...so I always had tons of friends and fun. I've actually managed to maintain those friendships even now. Though, now I have to say I'm closer to their wives than I am with them...especially given the infertility portion of the program.

DH & I were totally made for each other. Neither one of us takes too much terribly seriously, except this fertility business. We were friends first, got to know each other and when it happend, it happened and we've never looked back!! We are so close, and while we have our ups and downs, I thank God every day for him...because I dated some REAL losers that I am grateful I never married. WHEW!!!

We have a feisty 14 year old cat named Echo, whom I adore and place just as highly as DH. Echo and I were together for years before DH came along, so the pecking order may be a bit skewed. Wow, I sound crazy don't I?? But, I went through some really tough times before DH came along and Echo was there the whole time...so I don't think it's THAT crazy.

DH left his job as a computer tech to be a cop. We lived in Chicago for while where he found LOTS of computer work (his speciality is Macintosh), but when we moved back to Cincinnati, well, no Macs. So, he's a cop. Nice transition! As for me, I was going to be a television producer, but ended up in radio instead and now do commercial voice overs for a living. So, really, I just get paid to talk... a job DH will tell you I am tremendously overqualified for.

Infertility took from us more than I could have ever imagined - years of our life, money we'll never get back, time we should have spent together in love rather than apart and scared. But, I feel it has also made me, and DH, far wiser...wiser about what is really important and what really matters. When it comes to trivial B.S., I am totally enthralled with my newfound ability to now tell someone, "That really doesn't mean a damn thing to me." and not feel bad about not caring about crap that really doesn't mean much in the grand scheme of things. I can now say "NO" with confidence...mean it...and NOT feel guilty about it! I'm just sorry this was how I had to find my spine.

Well, girls, I've babbled on enough. It's just fun to see what truly incredible women we are - gathered here hoping to use our powers for good. I wish we had met at a conference for women trying to solve the world's problems, but I am more than grateful we met here. I would not have survived without the support of this site and the women who offer their experience, strength and hope.


XOXO
HeatherMac

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Sorry its been so long since I have been on here. I came a while back but the boards were all messed up. I also recently just moved to a new apartment.. so ive been busy..I think it's great that everyone has put their stories out there, now it's time for mine...

Im 18 years old, and engaged to one of the best men I have ever met. We have been together almost 3 years. We live in an apartment in Maryland with our 2 dogs. A shih-tzu named Kibbles and a miniature chihuahua named Hercules.. They are my children.. As for work I do childcare 45hours a week for my cousin,and 30 hours for my sister. My cousins son is a little over a year and very bad.. and my sisters sons are 1, 3, and 5. It's definately a lot of work. I think im healing pretty well from the miscarriage, but I am still trying to conceive. Being around all the children just makes me want one more. I get criticized for being 18, unmarried, and trying to get pregnant. But my fiance and I have decided that this is what we want. When not occupied with other things I spend my spare time (lately) Playing Super Nintendo until I die, then taking a 2 mile walk.. (I started a diet, and it seems these are the only things that keep me from "im bored -eating"). When Im not doing that I spend time with my fiance or my mother... I dont lead a very exciting life.. but it's good enough for me.. :)

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Hi ladies,

I am an IT manager at a financial services firm. I have been there for 16 years now. DH is a carpenter.

We have a 2 year old dog named Riley. He is the most amazing dog and he has filled our lives with joy since we got him from the shelter. I met my husband through a mutual friend. He did some work on my townhouse and we became friends. 2 1/2 years later, we got married and bought a house. We have been trying to have a child ever since.

We love to cook dinner together and watch movies. We also love to go out with friends or hang out by the pool and bbq. I love to shop...for anything. We are both pretty easy going.

This was a great idea, Karen.

Sue

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Hi, my name is Annie and my husband and I are now just starting to seriously consider IVF. Trying to learn more about it but I don't know of any resources or people who have gone through this procedure.

Jim my husband and I were married this year. We have both been divorced and have 4 children between us and now we would like one of our own. Shortly before my divorce from my ex husband, I had my tubes tied. I thought I would never want to be with anyone again nor did I ever think someone would want to marry me so I thought that tying my tubes wouldn't be a problem, well everything's different now.

Is there any kind of information you can share with me about IVF? Resources, contacts? I live in Texas and really don't know where to start. I would appreciate any help or advice from you.

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Annie, I did IVF this year. It was a hard decision to make emotionally and financially but I think once you decide that it's the way to go for you and your family, you commit yourself and go for it. I started with research on line. I considered a tubal reversal and paid for a consultation over the phone with a doctor who does them but my regular ob/gyn said I had a better chance with IVF since I'm 39 years old. I think every situation is very unique and you need to really think hard and long and make your decision. IVF was the hardest thing I've ever been through. I have pretty bad ARthritis and had to give up my pain medicine for this and that wasn't easy. I also was terrified of shots and really had a big adjustment to make to get myself to do it but here I am with two miracles growing inside me. I wish you the best. Good luck to you in making your dream come true no matter what you decide. Karen

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Hi everyone.. I was just reading through this post and it is so fun to find out who is who!
I am 37, Hubby is 38.. we live outside of Toronto, Canada... in the boonies on a small farm.. well.. if you call two dogs (Border Collie x's and a cat.. a farm!) But we love fixing up this old house.. sailing and riding our motorcycle -- the dogs take turns in the side car!

I have my own marketing and communications consulting company and I feel so lucky to be able to work from home, especially during all of these treatments, etc. Hubby is with a Financial firm.

We love to go cycling and hiking with the dogs.. and of course we are out sailing almost every weekend in the summer. And we love to ski (both cross country and downhill once the winter settles in!)But we too are home bodies and love to sip a glass of red wine out back on the hill, cook some wonderful meals and just enjoy each other. So I hope we don't sound too boring!

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thanks to everyone for their stories. it's neat getting to know you better. (now i just have to keep everyone's story matched with their correct name in my head. lol.)
as for me, i'm 32 until next wednesday. my dh just turned 34 in july. we've been married nine years, and knew each other for at least two before that. (i can't believe it's been over a decade! it seems so short a time.)
we have one dog, pandora, and two cats, digit and founder. we had a husky named shamus, but he got lymphoma and had to be put down last year on the day after my birthday. (i'm going for my u/s tomorrow morning to kick off my frozen cycle, so let's hope this birthday is much better.)
i work in a hospital in upstate new york with cancer patients and with the women's & children's services. it gives me so much hope to see the miracles in labor and delivery and the nicu every day.
i grew up in alabama though. (btw my family is fine.) dh grew up in virginia, which is where we met at the birthday party of a mutual friend.
for fun, i watch movies (love that escape!), read, or do crafts. right now, i'm teaching myself to crochet. i'm making baby blankets of hope. i also like to sing and act, but i haven't done much of either one of those lately. and i've written poems for as long as i can remember. (my first one was about the dentist.)
i also enjoy going to church and hanging out with my pastor. she's really cool.
i guess that's the pertinent stuff about me.
thanks for this thread.

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Great stories.

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Hi all,
I too think this is a great idea. There isn't too much to tell about me. I am 32 dh is 37 we have been married 4 years we live in Hope Mills, NC. I was married for 8 1/2 years previously and have four beautiful daughters with the ex jerk ranging in age from 14 down to 9.
My husband and I have been fortunate to have children in our life but long to do it together from the start. We also have a ward, a beautiful headstrong 17 yr old girl who is the daughter of my bestfriend. So my poor husband lives in a house with 6 women....LOL
I am a licensed hair dresser, after getting bored w ith that I joined the Army and met my Mr. Right on a deployment to Bosnia. Currently I am a full time mom and college student. I should graduate in March 2006 with a B.S. in management.
We also have three mastiffs, 2 English Mastiffs and 1 Bull mastiff. That ladies is my life. Hope I didn't bore you to tears.
I truly do not know what I would do without the support of you ladies. Sometimes I do not even post, just read and it makes me feel better. I no longer feel alone in this.

Babydust to us all,
Sylvia

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oh sylvia! i'm soooooo jealous. i moved here to the cold northeast from nc and i miss it terribly! i can't wait to get back to my roots down south (and nc would be my state of choice at this point.) please take in the sights and sounds for me. tell north carolina i miss her and i'm coming home again as soon as i can.

p.s.
sorry for the lunatic rant. it's just so hard being a southerner in new york. they don't understand that temps in the 40s in september are odd. i guess that's fodder for some other board "misplaced southerners" or something. :-)

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PJ,
I understand, I have been a military wife and or a soldier since I turned 18 and have lived in the Southeast since.
Ex was from New York and I hated it, I grew up in Arkansas(no Clinton cracks please!)
My husband and I just had a very relaxing beautiful weekend in Wilmington, NC. We just walked alot looked at historic houses went to the cotton exchange and enjoyed the beauty and grace of it all. Hope you get home soon.

Best to everyone,
Sylvia

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Great Idea! ;)

This site has been very helpful and very encouraging!!

I am 33 DH 34 one amazing son 5 1/2 - that we are blessed with.

Secondary infertility for us - male factor and tubal factor for me - its amazing that we have our little guy!! Still TTC for #2 - Started shots today which made us both SO excited - 1st IVF for us!!

I am a Certified Massage Therapist doing Theraputic Massage at a Chiropractors office and love every minute of making others feel better! No stress involved in my job its a wonderful thing! ;D

Thanks for all the encouragement - This is the best site I have been on - I have stopped going to all others! You guys are all supportive no matter your own situations - that is amazing!

Thanks for all the positive & kind words!

Chrisy

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Hey everyone-

For some reason I can't sign in, but my screen name is really SHANSY.

How cool to see what everyone is all about! I am 29 and DH will be 29 in a couple of months. TTC for 2 1/2 years. 2 failed IUI's, going for 3rd in November.

I am an Elementary teacher. I have taught 3rd, 4th, and 2nd grade. This year I decided to try a new job- I am a Literacy Coach for an Elementary building. I work with the teachers on training them the best practices on how to teach children how to read. I love it. It allows me to go into all of the classrooms, work with the students, and share my ideas with the teachers. Eventually though (maybe in a couple of years),I will go back into the classroom as a regular teacher.

My DH is an engineer. We live in Michigan. We have a house- it is our first. We like working on it and we would like to move in a year or so. We have 2 cats- Murphy and Bandit. I've had Murphy since I was 13 years-old. She has hyperthyroid so I give her meds 2 times a day. (The cat and I have something in common-always on medicine! ;D ) Bandit is 1 1/2 years-old and he is quite a handful! He loves to race around the house and jump on poor old Murphy.

I have a large family-most live close by. We see each other at least once a week. I have about 5 friends that I have known since elementary school and 7 that I have met later on in life.

I enjoy reading, painting, playing the piano, teaching, and watching movies.

I will keep everyone in my prayers- babydust to all!

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It is really nice reading these stories and getting to know everyone a little more!
I am 35 soon to be 36 on Oct 24th, I am on my 2nd marriage to my soul mate whom I met a year after my divorce, first husband always thought the grass was greener on the other side, the sad thing was he had a little girl 14 months when we met, around 3 she started calling me mom and to this day she still does.( she's 14 now ) she lives out of state, but we talk and write all the time. I miss and love her dearly. It was painful leaving her in my divorce. I have been through alot in the last 12 years, I have had major back surgery, 3 knee surgeries that resulted in my knee-cap being removed, and had a scare with cancer! I was blessed meeting my current husband and he is the love of my life. I am a dental assitant and my husband drives for UPs we have 1 dog and 2 cats that are like my kids!
It was hard when we decided to start a family that it just didnt' happen and I was afraid it wasn't meant to happen, I was diagnosed with homo MTHFR and Factor II and through lovenox twice a day I am currently pregnant with my 4th after 3 miscarriages I have made it to 15 weeks!! I am worried all the time, I wanted it so bad I am afraid it will be taken away!

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Hi all
I just joined and thought I would post here. I am 40yrs old dh is almost 30 yrs old. Been together for 11 yrs, been married for almost 5yrs. I have 2 children, my daughter is 22yrs and my son is 17yrs. We live in Oregon, run our own business of design/manufacturing performance parts for cars. My dh also has a full time job, so we don't see each other to much.. Enjoy watching movies, watching dh racing his car at the drag races, going to my sons track meets/football games.. We have 3 puppies, Max (he is german shepard/lab mix), Kodi ( he is husky/lab mix), and Zander (he was suppose to be german shepard/lab mix, but isn't, not sure what he is). We are going thru our 2nd IVF.. transfered 5 on day 5. Crossing our fingers.. I go in Wednesday April 26,06 and find out...I hate this waiting game we have to play..

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I am new to the boards also. I decided to join because all of you are so positive. I am twenty eight and work at a department store while waiting to get pregnant. I have a very supportive husband who i have been with for eleven years this Saturday. My husband has been with Hooters for a very long time. I love The orange county house wives. They should do another season. It's too bad that Lori was dating slade while Joe was seperated from him, friends don't do that!!
I have no children but have been pregnant before, I'm just waiting for a normal pregnancy. I have been taking ovulex for a month or so now, along with a organic diet. hopefully it will work. If I don't ever have a baby God has another plan for me. There are many children out there looking for a someone to love them.
All of you ladies are very supportive with each other it makes me feel that there is hope.

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Hi all! I just found this place this week, so I'm new!

I'm 31, and dh is 34. We've known each other since the 9th grade! But we both married other people and didn't really get "together" until 2000. Come November, we'll have been married for 5 years =) I absolutely love him with all my heart, and I swear he's my soulmate. We both laugh and think that it was just meant for us to be together.

In marrying him, I gained 2 beautiful daughters.. one is 12 and the other 10. I love them so much and feel so blessed to have them in my life. I figure through all my praying for children, God did bless me with them =)

We live in Virginia, out in the country. I'm a stay at home mom, and dh works for Dominion Power. His schedule is neat because he works a couple of days, then has a couple off. During the summer, we take off in our RV and go camping everytime he's off.

As for pets, we've got 4 dogs. Jake is a bull mastiff, and he's a giant baby. Then there's Mimi, Harley, and Toby.. our miniature pinschers. They're some funny characters. Recently we had 2 litters of puppies.. so right now I've got 8 more itty bitty min pins running around everywhere, lol! (Anyone wanna buy one! ROFL!!)

In 2004, we decided to start TTC. I went to my doc, had all kinds of tests done, and was told that I had PCOS. I was given very little info, and had to do all my research online. (Thank goodness for the internet huh?) Later I went on a low carb diet, and went through several progesterone withdrawal tests to see if I'd have a cycle. No such luck. I did lose a little over 20 lbs though and had some light spotting, so I think at least my body was trying to do something.

It was an emotional roller coaster ride. I cry so easily anyway, so it was pretty bad at times. DH was so supportive, and still is. We both want to have a baby together, so badly. He's a great father, and just an all around good guy. We'd be so happy if it would happen, but at the same time.. we're happy with our family as it is too.

Anyway, we love watching movies. We've got over 300 dvd's that we've collected, LOL! I also love reading, spending loads of time doing things with my daughters, and gardening. I love to grow things and I love spring because it's when everything seems to literally come to life.

Of course, we love camping, boating and swimming. It's all we do during the summer.

My favorite tv shows are ER, Medium, and That 70's Show. So funny!

Ok so I've gone on long enough! It's nice to meet you all and I wish each and every one of you the best of luck in all of this.

Danielle~

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Hi Danielle and all other ladies ttc!

Wanted to introduce myself too. I am 38 and my DH
is 38 we were born only 16 days apart ;D
We have been married for 15 years this July. We have
a 9 year old son that is our everything. We have
been ttc a lil bro or sis for him for about 4 years.
I just had my 2nd IUI on 5/18 so keep us in your
prayers. It is so nice to know that we are not alone in
our venture and that there is lots of love and support
out there. Thanks to you all for your words of wisdom
and encouragement :)

PS- Danielle sounds like you have a really great family
life! enjoy! the summer is coming in fast!


Shelly

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Hi all.
I too have recently found this site. I enjoy reading all the posts, getting new insight, meeting new people and most of all having someplace to get support from people who know exactly what you are going through.

I am 31 (32 in 3 days), dh is 33. We have know each other for 8 years, but recently got married in Oct of 2005. We have a little beagle (Izzy) who is our pride and joy.

For fun I enjoy spending time in my flower beds, reading, walking, motorcycle rides and most off all we love to spend time on our boat.

I have had 3 miscarriages, all of which were not planned pregnancies. 2 of the miscarriages I do not have the explanation. The last one in Dec was due to chromosome abmorality. (Trisomy 13) It was very hard on both my dh and myself. We were so excited to have a child and the loss hit very hard.

Since the last miscarriage they wanted to preform tests to see if they could get any insight into the other 2 miscarriages. We went for chromosome analysis, loads of bw as well as an hsg. They determined that I have a low estrogen problem that they believe may be speratic that is why I didn't have any trouble conceiving before. This month I began taking clomid and they monitored me closely with ultra sounds and bw on days 10, 11 and 12. Finally on day 12 they were happy with the follicle size and my estrogen, however I was not surging yet so I had to do an hcg shot to induce ovulation. Tomorrow I will be going from my preg test, however I am not very hopeful, I just have a very strong feeling it is a bfn. I am scared and also sad. I know it is just beginning for me and there are many women here who have been through years of ttc without luck, it is still not easy. I never (like many of you) thought in a million years I would have trouble conceiving.

I wish you all the best of luck and lots of baby dust to you all.

Melissa

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Hey Melissa!!

I just wanted to bump back in and say that I wish you good luck tomorrow with your test! Keep your chin up and keep your hope strong!

I will keep my fingers crossed and pray that you come back to tell us you got a +BFP+ ;)

Danielle~

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Hi Danielle,

Thanks your the support. Unfortunatly I got the BFN I was suspecting on Friday. Although I knew deep in my heart it was neg it is still very hard to hear.

I have now got my head back on straight and ready to move forward to try again this month. They think I may need to do IUI since I seem to have very low cm.

How are you doing?

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I'm sorry to hear that, Liz... and I'm sure we can all totally understand your disappointment. I know I can :-\

Good to hear though that you're ready for another go.

I got my bottle of Ovulex, but, the only thing that I've done with it so far is open it, check out the HUGE pills, and then stash it in the fridge... which is where they say keep it stored.

For some reason, I just can't take them yet. Other than that, I'm fine. :)

Have you read some of the other posts about CM? I saw a lot of women discussing the liquid form of Geritol to get better CM. I've also heard of certain cough syrups too. Maybe it's worth looking in to if you're nervous about moving on to IUI??

Hope you're enjoying the holiday weekend.. ;)
Danielle~

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Hi Danielle.
How was you holiday weekend? Mine was good, busy which kept my mind of the problems. That is good sometimes, I think I needed a break anyway.
So did you start your Ovulex? You seem alittle nervous about it!? I am not too familiar with it, just what I have read here on the different posts. I was wondering if you talked to your doc about taking it, if so what were his opinions? I am curious but also somewhat unsure about it. Its probably just me I tend to be on the skeptical side of things. From what I have read it really seems to work for many people here on this site.
I am nervous about iui, however I am willing to do anything at this point to achieve a healthy preg. Have you ever had iui? I was wondering what to expect.
I have read some posts on cm issues. I heard about the Robutissen and I am going to try that this month. It is extra hard for me to accept that I am going through this when I did get preg naturally 3 times, unfortunatly they ended in miscarriage. All the same I have trouble facing the reality I am now facing!
Take care. hope to hear from you soon.

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There hasnt been a post here in awhile but I thought I would add who I was.

I am a 29 year old preschool special ed teacher, my DH and I have been ttc for 2 years. At first we had a unknown infertility dx with my husband, but in that dx process found out that I have hormonal issues that are still be tested.

Ok that was my two cent story. Best wishes to all.
Megz

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Hello again Megz -

I too have some hormonal issues. Care to compare notes?

Here is my brief version of my story. I was dignosed with low Estrodiol in the Leutal Phase which they tell me is related to poor ovulation. In May I began taking Clomid, June was cancelled cycle due to early ovulation. Next cycle was 1 75iu vile of Repronex per day, next was 2 75iu viles of Repronex per day. I am in the 2ww right now. I seem to respond well to the medications, follicle production is good and quality seems good, just not sure yet why pg cannot be obtained.

That is the very short version. I am always anxious to hear from anyone who has had any of the experiences that I have had.

Take care, hope to hear from you soon.
Liz

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Ok, I missed out on the conversation about what everyone does and who everyone is. I would love to know more about you as well.
I am 35 and dh is 37. We have been married for 5 years. We have a farm with 8 horses, 45 cows and calves, 3 dogs (labs - yellow, choc. and black) all are spoiled rotten. We like to rodeo. My husband has done it for years now.
We live in Arkansas (I know all the jokes). I am the typical southern bell. Lots of lunches with the girls, cookouts with couples and ice cream socials with the kids.
I spoil everyone elses children rotten. I have 3 god daughters and 2 god sons. Closest thing I have right now to children.
My dh and I were set up on a blind date and the rest is history. I have been married before YUCK! but still no children. DH first marriage. His mom had him perfectly trained before we wed. Taking care of elderly parent now.
I work for a CPA so now is my slow time.
I enjoy scrapbooking, crocheting and canning. I know boring! But seems to fit in my world.
We are very active with the local horse association and fair boards.
I am currently getting ready to start IUI once again after a ectopic. Gosh, dosen't this seem to describe us and consume us at times.
Would love hearing about others.
Kel

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Hi Everyone,
I'm 40 years old, born in Mt Vernon NY. I moved to Va Beach in 1992-stayed for 10 years and moved back to NY. I quess there's no place like home. I've taught pre-k for 18 years, and worked with children with autism. Currently I'm working as a dental asst. I miss working with children and would like to eventually open a daycare center. I have an Am Stat terrier named Capone who is the child I never had. He thinks he's human and honestly at times I wonder!

My bf is 45 and works for a local cable company. He writes lyrics and music, and also sings. He helps keep my spirits up when I'm feeling blue about this conception problem we have.

I love music and writing poetry. I love to cook and entertain. I will be attending the college of New Rochelle in January to further my education. I would like to be a social worker or counselor. I'm not to much of a tv watcher, but I love reading books on spirituality and watching comedies.

Best wishes to all! Its great to know I have a place to go to where people are real and share the same issues.

Love, Karen

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Hello my name is Bettie and I live in Columbus Ohio. Im currently in school to be a culinary chef and my dh is a mail man. We are living in a 2 bedroom apt and are saving money to move to albuquerque nm this coming summer. I cant wait. I love to watch movies, I sing, and write poems. I am also very good at drawing portraits. I will spend hours and hours on one picture. And of course as you've probably figured by now I LOVE to cook. I also love to read. I am in the middle of a book called The Alibi. Murder Mysteryis my fave. Well thats pretty much the basics. Hopefully there will be another addition to it soon : )

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Hi everyone.

this is my very first post here. I'm Mindy, 31. DH is Matt, 32. We live in a lovely little community in central Pennsylvania. I'm a special ed teacher by profession but turned stay at home mom in June to our 2 year old son. DH is a coroporate pilot.

We've been ttc since DS was about 9 months old. We've had 4 losses total, one before DS was born and three after. I was also dx with cervical cancer last March, as well as an auto immune disorder called lichen schlerosis.

We recently started seeing an RE to help us to achieve pregnancy. I've had the initial testing and am headed in to have laproscopy and hysteroscopy in February. My blood tests have revealed MTHFR and another clotting disorder.

Hoping to start the IUI process after my LSC/HSC.

As for hobbies, DH and I enjoy a variety of sporting events. We love to watch football and the local hockey team. Our days are filled with time spent with DS. He's an active and healthy 2 1/2 year old. he keeps us on our toes.

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Hi ladies,

i'm 34, my dh is 40. we have a ds 6. We live in jersey. i met him in a friends wedding party. We both were teamed up. They never got married, we did. we celebrate our 8th yr in march. We have two dogs one a g.shep. and the other a mutt! Guinness and Shannon. One is 15 one is 9. We just bought our first house. My husband changed jobs, so commute wo'nt be so bad.

Now, our son id in school all day, and i'm bored at home. i started to work at mcdee's to fill the void for a little bite. but that was crazy. I worked too many hours. it was supposed to be for peice of mind, and extra money. I'm one of the few that shows up for work. After having to work on christmas eve, it's not for me. I managed to save so money and we planned to start ivf in Jan. Now i'm back on the ivf road again. I've had many-too-many ectopic pg.

My dh medical plan doesn't cover ivf, or any meds. We plan to do ivf and later try natural ivf. If that doesn't work back to ivf again. I don't want to be on the drugs for long periods of time. I know ivf doesn't always work the first time. We have planned for this for years. I'm ready for the crazy ride!!!

thanks for all who listened. I'm sure this will be a great place to talk and vent.

have a great day and good luck to us all.

ann

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Hi All. I am new fairly new here. I am 34, my hubby is 30. We are forunate to have a 2.5 year old daughter. It took us three year to conceive her and after finding more out about my fertility I realize how lucky that was. Still I hold out hope for another one. We have been married 9 years, we meet while we were travelling in Europe 11 years ago. We've been trying for our second for just over a year.

We live in the New England area. I work part-time doing administrative work at a non-profit child and family service agency and my hubby is in healthcare.

I love photography and would like to do more painting besides painting fairies on my daughter's walls. :)

I look forward to learning from you guys and sharing ideas and having somewhere to express the frustrations.

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